Thanks for the advice Dave and Alan, I have found a club in my area and will be visiting them in a couple days (busy schedule). I am leaning more towards the Sig Kadet Senior, since i want an easy first couple flights (without crashing and totaling the plane ) and the Kadet does that without the use of ailerons. (is it smart to start without the use of ailerons??)
I am not too worried about the build since i will be having time each week to commit to building.
Also i checked out the radio alan reccomended and it is impressive though a little costy (being a 7 channel radio), but if im going to be serious in this hobby i may have to invest for the best success.
Thanks again for your support