RE: Help me fix it! please ...
You really don't want "beefier" landing gear. The reason is that when you have a rough landing that "roughness" has to go somewhere. Right now it's bending the landing gear, but if you put stronger landing gear on it then it's going to transmit that energy to the fuselage and start causing damage there. The best this to do is just straighten the landing gear and keep practicing to get better at landing.
Ken