ORIGINAL: downunder
I always hand start but I've never used a chicken stick. Hand starting is actually extremely safe if you use a bit of common sense, the danger comes after the engine has started. As for reaching around the prop to hold the fuselage, if I had 10 people restraining the model I'd still hold it. It's a way of resisting the reaction to the force you use to flick the prop and to keep your balance. And it reminds you where the prop is.
Imagine that, you and I are in agreement!