Tail out (or nose in) orientation is difficult for all of us new pilots. I find, as a noob, that making very small and short inputs (with the tail out) allows me to correct the input if I make a mistake due to orientation. In other words, if the initial input is orientationally wrong, I can then make the proper input before it is too late. Practice, like Bugzilla says, will soon make this a "second nature" response on your part. Don't "force" the learning curve, as this will all come too you in due time. You are, IMO, at the "patience" part of learning how to fly a heli. BTW, it looks too me that you are doing very well indeed.