RE: how often do you crash on your maidens?
So far, 1 crash:7 maidens due to engine failure. Put a new prop on and away it went.
As for having others maiden your airplane...
I could not fathom letting someone maiden something I spent hours on end building. I also build within my flying abilities, I guess. The idea of someone else crashing my airplane on its first flight is unacceptable. If I ever build a jet, I might reconsider.
Edit: Or a helicopter.