Sorry, I trump you on the age front, I'm forty-something (just).
You're right that trim is an essential prerequisite but so is having your brain programmed to fly the thing. I just flew the Trex on FMS and was doing OK until I became disoriented, if that had been the real deal, it would have cost me dearly. Hence my desire to get on the FMS SIM with the actual controller.
Check out the Allan Szabo link half way down this page
http://www.helihobby.com/html/t_rex_600_heli.html One day I wanna fly like that!!!!!!!!! Just try some of the manouvers he makes on FMS, the heli will do it but it aint easy!