RE: copilot vs heli commander
A co-pilot (either version) is a good tool. I already said that. Learning on it is another story. If you HAVE to learn by yourself, (I do not recommend that you learn by yourself, but given your current situation and experience with the local clubs, might be your only option right now) it is possible that you will benefit from it's use. The problem arises when you need to advance and the equipment is holding you back.
I have read many posts of people that sear by the co-pilot system and the countless times that it has saved their helicopter. I have also read the countless posts of people that are against it because it is a crutch and it will hold you back. I see both points of view, and that is why I say that I will probably not recommend one. Probably being the key word. I like the way it performs on the plank that I have, and was considering installing one on a helicopter whenever i come across one that can be converted to a trainer. BUT I already know how to fly, this is to use with complete beginners that have no clue on RC flight.
I feel ashamed as a heli instructor pilot that your local club turned you away until you got a "real" heli. Currently, I'm working with 2-3 people in my club that have micro-electric helicopters. I do my best to get them in the air and I coach them along the way. 2 of them already are taking the plunge into bigger helicopters, thanks to my coaching and them watching me fly my bigger helis. If I had turned them away, they would be trying to fly their helis in a park or somewhere else and most likely be frustrated by now.
Rafael