RE: How do i put these together
Solder my good man. Solder. I dunno why you got that connector. Not sure you can run your heli off the balance plug. Never seen that done and dont think I would advise it either. So cut the white plug off that connecter and then solder the JST to bare battery wires. Make sure you use something to cover your joints be it electrical tape or the best thing is shrink tube.
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