I am going to go against the grain and recommend the RTF, or at least an ARF. (plus .46 engine, radio and starting accessories) I have always suggested that your first plane should NOT have a high emotional investment. Any of the common hi-wing trainers will work just fine. Once you can fly on your own, the possibilities are endless.

I have to agree, seeing a box of sticks take flight is a great feeling. But I feel it is not the best choice for learning to fly.