RE: What do you experienced guys do.....
Snacker, you may have a great situation since your days off are during the week. At our field it gets really crowded on Saturdays, however, on Tuesday and Thursday all the retirees come out to fly, and they are usually the "experts" who have been flying forever. Check around you to see what clubs are available and what days they fly. Take your time and spend a couple of days at the field. Some clubs are more helpful and friendly to beginners than others, and you want to find one with helpful members. We have two clubs in my area, and I joined the one that's a little farther away because they are a very friendly, helpful bunch. Good luck with your flying and with finding a good club to join.
Sta