RE: Can I get away with a low wing?
From your post it sounds like you have no intention of getting an instructor so all bets are off high or low wing.
Trainers are easier to fly for a novice but far from crash proof. A low wing plane will be much less forgiving.
An instructor will save you time and money.
As far as crash causes? You read alot about mechanical and electrical problems causing a crash, most of these claims are BS. people have a tendency to blame anything other than themselfs and veteran pilots are even worse.
Yes these things have caused crashes but not as often as they are blamed for.