Either way you put the flybar link it will always lead the blades .
but pamdevlin is right about being a bad flybar link .
With the extreme setup the stock flybar link is too thick and has to be shaved flat and the link also has to be extended till it will "see-saw" evenly.
That problem was causing my heli to drop when I make sharp moves. It restricts the flybar from tilting fully one way. Taven, tilt your flybar both ways and you'll see what I mean.
I have one more problem left I'm trying to work out (TBE), but when I'm done I'll post pictures and details about it all.

I get this figured out for the both of us pretty soon. (I hope)