RE: bent flybar...
a bent flybar throws off the balanceof the flybar paddeles, causing vibrations as to how severe will depend on how far off the paddles are off from eachother, on one flybar I bent my whole heli would shake violently during spoolup on other one I was able to bend it back near perfectso no problems, as for blowing apart you may have already had other damge to rotor head you couldn't see.