Jimmy,

You have started in the right way, and that is by seeking advice from experienced modelers. I'm sure you will find that RC fliers will help you any way that they can. I have helped more than a few learn to fly RC and here are some words of advice:

Get a good, solid trainer and ask for help at the local flying field setting it up. The models in the links above are fine. If you want to learn to build as well, you cannot beat a Sig Kadet. Make sure that the control surface travels, directions, and the aircraft center of gravity (balance point) are correct (per the plans).

A four channel radio from Airtronics, JR or any other name brand will do fine. It is not necessary to buy an expensive programmable radio at this phase. It is wise to buy a radio that will work in trainer mode with the club flight instructor. This way you can avoid handing the radio back and forth.

Ask for help running your engine to avoid frustration. A few pointers from an experienced person will do. (glow powered refers to an internal combustion model engine that runs on nitro-methane fuel available at your local hobby store).

A simulator is a great way to learn the basics without risking an aircraft. I believe that for some modelers they will pay for themselves by avoiding expensive crashes.

Learn the basics of aerodynamics, propulsion, and electronics. The internet is your friend here.

Don't get in a hurry. Moving too quickly will only cost you. Moving forward from here without some flight instruction will cause you to crash for sure. I have seen people new to the hobby arrive with the attitude "I'm a pilot and an engineer, I don't need any help". They either learn right away that they are wrong or fail.

Hope this helps,

Mitch