The simulators do not simulate reality. Talk with your instructor before you fly. Let him know what you think you can do, and let him decide what he'll let you do. Your best bet is to think out loud while you're flying the plane. Say what you're going to do give it a second or two, and then do it. Your instructor will gain confidence in your ability to anticipate what the plane is doing.

Depending on what skills you exhibit, he may or may not let you land it the first flight.

For me, the most frustrating experience is the student that won't do what I tell them to do. If I want them to fly figure 8's, and they start throwing the sticks around, I'll take the plane, land it, and explain that if they don't want to follow instructions, they can find another instructor. I usually have a reason for telling them what to do, and I've explained our goals for the flight before we take off.

Again, listen to your instructor, and do what he wants you to do. You'll solo faster and be a better pilot for it.

Brad