Try Real Flight! It's a real good one.... Also just to check where the R/C clubs are located you can go to
www.modelaircraft.org then click on About AMA and look for chartered clubs. Find your state and you will get a list of all the clubs in the state... Look for some close to you... You may find one you didn't know was out there. I know I did!
Good luck. If you want to build a new trainer for only a few $$$ check out
www.spadtothebone.com