It really does come with a little practice. I used the "stick under the low wing" method to learn. I asked an experienced pilot once how it could ever become automatic. He asked me if I could drive my car with my hand on the bottom of the steering wheel. Of course I could, what a silly question. He pointed out that if your hand is on the bottom of the steering wheel, to turn right you have to move your hand to the left. We all do it everyday without thinking about it. Pretty soon, flying a plane becomes just as automatic. I promise!