ORIGINAL: tIANci
Still we can guide the forumer on his way, guide him to ensure that he does not hurt himself or someone else. Guiding is good rather than freaking out and saying someone will be unable to this and that.
Exactly!
Better to get someone focused on the realities of an undertaking instead of telling them, no you can't do it...
Eventually they may come to the realization that they've bitten off too much, OR they may commit to what it really may take...
Either way more thought and care is put into it.