[quote]ORIGINAL: ChuckW

I just say that I'm working on stuff for other people in the club. Actually, she doesn't mind. Our household expenses, savings, investments, etc. come first but we each have our own personal budget. We have an agreement not to question each other about what we do with that personal money.

Why lie then?

Some time ago I use to do the same as ChuckW, but my wife is always aware of everything that comes in the house and what goes out. Three years ago I bought a house that I use as a Business place and I took almost all my RC stuff there (My wife was glad for what I did). Now the fight is not about how many planes I have (About 11 and two more in the building process). Now is related on the time that I spend on my office.
There is an addiction at certain point as sometimes you have to hide things (like alcoholics do), maybe we should ask for help.