if i want to go up the elevator goes... Up (Stick comes back
if i want to bank left the left aileron goes...Up Stick goes left
and the right aileron goes... Down
if i want to yaw left the rudder goes... LeftStick goes left

Look at your plane (from the back) and picture the air moving over the wing or horizontal and vertical stabilizers. Deflect the ailerons, elevator and rudder. Which way would the air cause the wing or tail to move?
Dennis-