mrbonk, would you allow me to expand on your astute observation?
Here's what I've learned at the field and from the many enlightening responses in this thread....(paraphrasing mrbonk's synopsis):
Some people get it. Some people get it a little. Some people don't get it. Some people will never get it.
Thanks to all you wonderful instructors that selflessly give their time to the last three.
I can tell you, they appreciate it whether they learn to fly, or not.
(thank you mbonk for bringing that up!)