You're right - I'm so used to using the simulator as I don't yet have a radio or airplane, that I use the term controller because that's what I saw on the box when I was typing in my post. Futaba has it labeled 'Interlink Elite Controller'. I see in the instruction manual for one of their real radios they call it a radio 'control' system. I'll call it a radio or transmitter from now on.

In any event, I'm glad I'm not the only one gripping the controller that way. It's good to know an experienced rc flyer is doing the same thing, as I don't want to get into any bad habits.

Thank you!