RE: Tried and True position for landing target?
I believe that it is easier to judge the flare if the moment of touchdown is right in front of you. I know when I teach someone to land that is what I tell them to aim for 50 feet out and right in front of them.
However if you are landing a scale model and you have good depth perception then what you are doing will look better. I always liked landing tail draggers on the fronts and letting the tail down just as it passed me.