Very good comments. I think ,as an instructor, it's very easy to forget the hardships of when we were learning to fly (and always are learning). The fact remains that if we do not encourage neebees as you like to call them, we will not have a hobbie to worry about. I am not the best instructor or pilot but I will always help IF ASKED. I would not advise any instructor to dwell on the negatives to much at the beginning but as it was stated there are so many different teaching methods and students you have to get the chemistry and trust between both. My 2 cents