balluce,
If you've no plane flying experience you'd destroy it in seconds, whilst Sims are fantastic for practice it's not a replacement and I'm afraid you still need to go through the starter plane / trainer 1st.
Have a look at the HobbyZone Super Cub or the Multiplex EasyStar initially but if you really do feel confident then possibly the Multiplex MiniMag but set up up as 3 channels to start with and the progress to 4 with ailerons whe yo've a few weeks experience.
Just as a general is the Honey Bee a beginners heli, if not that may be the problem and one of the biggest reason for newbies crashing is trying to fly something too advanced for them !!