#1: Check your club's by-laws and see if they don't require a quorum (usually at least 51% of the membership) to be present in order to pass a resolution.
#2: Organize the rest of the membership and overturn the resolution at the next meeting.
or
#3: Find a new club.
As far as overflights of neighboring homes, might I suggest the homeowners use
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