RE: what size engine to use
The longer you're in the hobby, the more intuitive this becomes. You'll develop your own flying style and interests, and those will lead you to certain airframe/engine combinations. The best thing to do is experiment and watch other flyers. In general, pay attention to the weights involved. If you read that a plane is often nose heavy, you'll want to find a lighter engine. This might mean a slightly smaller engine, where you have less weight all-over than if you'd use a heavy engine and had to add tail weight. The opposite is true for models that tend to be tail heavy.
So, in large part the answer is: "It depends." Do your research here and find out what people are using.