RE: learning 3D
The postings so far are all dead-right.
Given your situation, a simulator will be worth its weight in gold and a foamy is a great way to get back to the "real world" and practice your 3D.
Whatever way you do it, the only way to really get proficient at 3D is to practice, practice practice.
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