sdt22, I have to agree with what you said but I think its a bigger crime when a parent doesn't support a child in their dreams. True the boy is to young to even know what TOC is or who Chip Hyde is but his father will show him and he may decide on his own that this is what he wants. In highschool I was state ranked in track and not once did my parents ever see me compete. Do you know whats that like? My youngest daughter played volleyball and in 6 years I think I missed 2 games. Yes I did push her but not to persue my dreams but to make sure she didn't do something she would regret later in life ( she wanted to quit her junior year). To this day she thanks me for that argument. Sometimes a parent has to push because we were young once and made mistakes.