I feel for the OP.

He & his are not exposed to the total count of clubs that make the bad apples become just a percentage. He is exposed to a few bad apples being the only apples in his area.

Folks shouldnt have to go to the nearest I mean second nearest...
ok, al the way to 3rd nearest..... ok, eventually past 3 clubs to fing one that is welcoming.


As for overcrowded clubs,
they should start a satalite 3d/PF/Heli field outside the 3mile,
because those types of flying can be done at a pretty small field.
Those flyers get a seperate site, and the main site gets them out of line to fly there