Who says flying is difficult?
True falsaik, it is not "impossible".
I certainly understand that when you have no access to someone to a teacher, telling someone they have to have an instructor is a mute point.
I am glad you learned to fly and did not get discouraged. Most people would not have the money to counteract thier learning curve if they chose to try it on thier own, the law of averages is against them if nothing else.
Maybe you could set an example in your area and be that missing instructor.
It sounds like you understand thats the best way to enjoy learning how to fly RC.