Simulator helps or not ?
A tail slide? Now that is impressive. I was happy to do some sloppy loops, rolls, and hammerheads (not to mention landings).
I'm a licensed pilot as well, but I think the sim really made the difference for me.
I'd tell anyone that with all the $$$ and time you spend to get going in this hobby the sim is really worth it.
I'm flying a Kadet LT-40 now. Today I bought a Sig 4 Star. Should be a fun second plane.