Methinx we're getting a bit complicated and "over-flustered" here.

F-15J_JSDF,

First, let me say this...I'm living proof that you don't need to start out "gluing sticks together when you're 6" or anything like that. I didn't "build" an airplane until I was in my 30's (save for plastic models to put on the shelf)....and THAT was hardly an "airplane" or "building" since it was an electric foamy!

Nor is it true that ARFs won't teach you about kits, nor kits about ARFs.

The very foundation of everything about RC airplanes is this:

We're talking about airplanes. They do (or don't do, as the case may be) what airplanes do for the reasons airplanes do them. That is to say, there are certain things that are simply true of airplanes...for example, they like it if their wings are nice and straight, not warped or twisted. You don't need to be "a kit builder" to learn that lesson.

Now, clearly, based on the experiences you've shared in other engineering/design/construction efforts, you have the ability to read and follow instructions. That's ALL it takes.

As others have suggested...this forum is FULL of folks who will offer advice, tips, tricks, and techniques if you just ask.

Be patient enough, give yourself a chance at success, and select one of the many quality ARF trainers out there. Open the box, lay everything out, and just GO SLOW. The instructions of quality ARFs are STEP BY STEP. Indeed, many of them will tell you in the early pages what tools and supplies you'll need to complete construction. if some of them are unfamiliar to you, or if you think perhaps another tool could do the job...ASK! Come to this very beginners forum and say "Hey...they say I'll need some left handed muffler grease. Where do I get that??"

The point is...don't over complicate this. Many of today's ARFs can be assembled with NO prior experience, and produce a model that gives you a reasonable shot have flying it successfully. Don't get yourself worked up for no reason.

If you will :

1) Select an appropriate model
2) Take your time
3) Make yourself perform each step as well as you can.
4) Ask questions on this forum ANY time you're unsure of things.

I'd bet you'll do just fine.