Phoenixangel, You hit the nail on it's head.

It reminds me of when I was about 12, "Mom, how come I have to learn things the hard way" Looks like you picked up a couple hard lessonsn along the way, and I'm betting a dollar to a dozen dounuts that there is a line a mile long waiting to learn the hard lessons and they think they are in the fast track lane.

One thnig about the hard lessons, they are remembered long after the easy ansers are forgotton.

Don