I think these observations are mainly due to BEINGa newbie and just intimidated by people that really
do know about the things a newbie will need to eventually know. Maybe trying to compete with racers
with race set ups with an rtr has you feeling inept in some way?!? Most people try to help anyone
who asks a question at the track unless they are really busy themselves. I've never seen anyone get dissed
at the track ever myself. I guess I race with all cool people or something.

Relax, take advice when its given because anything more than what you ask will probably be your next
question anyway and have fun racing. Eventually you'll get better at everything and race with them.