Yeah I just wanted to make sure we were suggesting appropriate planes. I'm sorry to hear the OP had a bad experience with a bad plane, however it might make him appreciate something like this even more than the rest of us:
This is the plane you want!
Aeroworks has a pretty dynamite reputation and everything in their kits is first rate - hardware, covering, quality...
Especially with you 'not needing 3D' a .61 in this sub-6lb bird should fly wonderful aerobatics.