Welcome to the '40s. You are not alone. I went through it, and now have 2 sons just coming out of the '40s and a stepson same age as you. He was a pretty fair guy until recently. Seems to have a lot of worry about what to do in his life. Stay with his humdrum job, or branch out on his own. Lots of questions. He could do it Ok but it's his choice to make.
Hang in there. You will make it!
