Roberta,
I think you are
1 Taking all this too seriously
2 I don't think you have been privy to some of Natans old posts (although i must admit i have not seen any full blown character assassinations for a month or so) otherwise i think you would see it from my point.
3 i have not slated nathan? have i ?? just enjoying a bit of just deserts, he is a young man growing up in a big world, the earlier he understands that the more bridges you burn Etc. he has "slated" many a plane himself, so its nice for him to see it from the other side.
i certainly would not wish him dead, like he did in a scathing attack to one of my friends (anyone remember that one)
Time to take a chil pil
Ouch F+*k my foot just went through my soap box!
I must loose some weight!!