RE: What do you do about
At my field I fly mostly 3D, (low,slow and close in) so I usually don't fly while the other members fly, and they don't fly when I fly, so it's a even trade off.
Don't let it get to you. It's just not your style. Personaly I don't care for burning holes in the sky in big circles either, but someone else might and I just deal with it and wait my turn.