"Fly what you want (and can afford), not what others are flying."

Well said Bruce!

The fact is that each individual pilot's proficiency progresses at a different rate. A great deal of one's progress is determined by how much you demand of yourself and the amount of practice. Many students want to move up too fast as soon as they solo perhaps taking on too much airplane too quickly often ending up in trouble. Personally I am always trying to improve my skills and am presently learning to fly pattern (just a beginner flying the basic level) which requires a great deal of practice and discipline to fly well. Its all in the journey which is a great deal of the satisfaction and enjoyment of our hobby/sport. Comparing yourself to others is not always prudent. Quoting form the Dirty Harry movie " A mans got to know his limitations" and its a good idea to remain within them until your personal skill level improves.