Kris - All the tips you are getting are good, you just need to find what works for you and practice. I tried to steer the tail but it always confused me. The trick that works for me is to push the stick in the direction you want wing that is closest to you to go. It's really simple but works! After doing this for a half season, it became second nature. I fly mostly pattern, and in my class, all maneuvers are flown parallel to the runway so this trick always works when inverted - it saved me at contests numerous times.

This trick also really helps with inverted harriers.

Good luck.
Steve