The computer sims DO help. But they nowhere near replace having an instructor.

To find an AMA affiliated club in your area, browse the AMA website. www.modelaircraft.org They have a club locator page.

There is also the "UMA" (United Modelers of America) Another model aircraft organization, somewhat based on the AMA's rules. Thier site is: http://www.unitedmodelers.com/ They don't have nearly as many clubs. (and I have some suspicions about the organizer's true motives in setting the organization up... This person was highly involved with the "SFA", which spent most of its time harrassing the AMA with lawsuits.) BUT... there will be people flying at thier club sites... and the guys at the feld will probably be interrested in supporting the hobby.