Wouldn't moving the right trim lever to the right make the right aileron more heavy? Are the controls moving in the right direction? When the right stick is moved to the right, does the right aileron move UP? I think the throws need to be cut down. I would start off with 1/4" throw each way on the elevator and ailerons. Too much throw will get you in a stall real fast. If you reduce the throws, you might have a better chance of understanding what is happening....

Larry