Hey Joey, probably a good initial set up is -1 at the bottom, +5 in the middle stick and +7 at the top....
When you say the blades tilt when it sitting do yo umean the while rotor head or just the blades and paddles?
The whole rotor head should be vertical, the blades should also be horizontal...

If oyu have a local flying field, you should go out there and get some help setting it up.

jason