When I was flying regularly I probably averaged a hard landing or 2 a month but no complete destruction. It has been awhile since I destroyed anything. I took a few year break from the hobby but when i got back into it about 3 years ago I started out with SPAD's to keep it cheap. I destroyed a few of those just being stupid and abusing them but as I got more serious into the hobby I worked really hard to improve my reflexes and hone my flying skills. I can't tell you how many touch and go's, intentional dead sticks, and basic maneuver practices I have done. It really does help though. i think one of the most neglected parts of our hobby is the art of landing and energy management. I can't tell you how many times I have watched people take off and do amazing maneuvers and put on quite a show but then have to make 3 passes for llanding then end up trying to force the plane on the runway and end up in the weeds. Most crashes i have seen have been on landing or deadstick, when people dont properly manage their energy.
Sorry to get on a soapbox.

it just amazes me how the most dangerous protion of the flight is also the most neglected.