http://www.masportaviator.com/ try this web site for "instructing " and read up on how to instruct. save the pages to your favorites. This will let YOU know what to ask your instructor. It will also let you know WHY he has you do certain things at certain times. Takes a lot of frustration OUT of the equation when you know your normal...ok you fly toy planes so normal may be a poor choice of terms[8D]

do the tool bar at the top of this RCU for rcuniverity then begginers then airplane then landing tips.

Fly at a throttle click or three above stall speed and do fly bys at 10 feet above the runway as STRAIT AS YOU CAN DOWN THE MIDDLE over and over with a go around the pattern each time.
Goal is to set up your approach CONSITENTLY this is exactly the same as landing but without the final touch down. It will get you comfortable with how the plane handles at low throttle/airspeed. IT IS QUITE DIFFERENT. You will get there! and in a year or so you could be teaching someone...make that SHOULD be teaching someone