I typed zip code 10522 in the search box of the AMA club locator.
http://www.modelaircraft.org/clubsearch.aspx
There are 25 flying clubs within 25 miles and 7 within 10 miles. Some of the flying site descriptions say only electric models are allowed.
So, local hands on help should be available. Most clubs have volunteer instructors who will teach you how to fly.

My suggestion, do not buy anything until you have talked to one or more local instructors. It will be easier, and probably cheaper, to learn with an instructor.

Also, if you email a club and do not get a reply, pick up the phone and call the contact number. Some of our members check email less than once a month but nearly always answer the phone.

Carrell