<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS;">'atraumanurse', I am glad that you and your wife are willing to give it another chance. As was said earlier, try to catch the others at the track when they're not so busy and see what type of response you get. Otherwise, just check with the organiser for all of the necessary information, and you and your wife go out there and have fun. I think It's great that you have your other half out there with you to make the experience that much more enjoyable. If the others are still uncouth and obnoxious, the two of you just ignore them, and they'll soon get the message. </span></span>