When I started flying I was encouraged to get an instructor. Back then it was hand over the box. Then came the buddy cord (thank God).
Hands on instruction has, without a doubt, saved many an airplane and kept many a pilot in the hobby.
Most clubs have an instructor for basic flying.
Is 3D mostly learned from trial and error? Or are there sites to learn 3D?
Is a flight Sim recommended? What kind of plane is most suited for 3D?

Tom