Really? Landings are honestly my favorite part of the entire flight. In fact, I love them so much that if given the chance I take the crosswind runway so I have to use a lot of rudder on the approach. Honestly, from reading what you said, I think it just comes with time. There isn't a better feeling than a perfectly flaired 0 bounce grease job!

I'd suggest doing touch and go's until you're confident. Good landings are really nothing more than having a good grasp on what the plane is ABOUT to do. Too many people also try and land with too little speed. They're the one's where the plane drops and the gears get busted up. Keep up a little speed if you're unsure. The greater the speed, the greater your need to coax the aircraft to the runway.